It's amazing how someone can make such an impact on you. Whether it's good or bad, someone else's actions can change your life forever. Even something minor. It's fascinating really. I'm pretty positive we've all had someone make an impact on us. Myself included. There's a specific person that comes to mind as I'm writing this. I won't give name, because she knows who she is. Let me tell you something. I bet you already know this, but love works in mysterious ways. Love can also make an impact on our lives. Just as well, if not, more of an impact than people can. Whether we have a good experience, or a bad experience. A good experience may consist of falling in love with someone, staring lovingly into their eyes, being there through thick and thin for each other, and maybe even settling down 1 day. Getting married, having kids, growing old together. That love will always be in both of your hearts until your departure to the heavens. Where you once again meet, and spend eternity together. Then we have the bad experiences. I'm pretty sure all of us have had a bad experience with love at some point or another. Myself included. These bad experiences would consist of lying, cheating, arguing all the time, and sometimes even physical abuse. Remember when I said earlier, that love can, and may, make more of an impact on our lives than people? That may not make a lot of sense to you, because, in order for love in a relationship to make an impact on your life, you need a person. While this technically is true, I more or less meant the actions of the person you love. What happens while you're in the relationship. Like the positive and negative things I already told you about. It's not completely the person you love, or absolutely despise, no, I'm not saying you won't love the person you're in the relationship with. You SHOULD love that person very much, and if you don't? What the fuck are you doing in said relationship? What I mean is, you don't, or at least I don't, fall in love with someone at first sight. Now, I know that some people do believe in “love at first sight”, and that's okay. I'll respect your beliefs, but my thing with it is, you never know what type of person somebody is, until you get to know them. They could be a serial killer for all you know. Anyway, I'm starting to get a little off track here. Positive and negative things in a relationship. I said I was pretty most, if not all of us, had experienced a bad relationship before. I'm no exception. I've been cheated on, lied to, and even threatened, by the people that are supposed to love me. Do you know the saying “Forgive and forget”? Well, I may forgive, but I sure as hell don't forget. You can do whatever you want to me. I may be pissed off at first, but I'll eventually forgive you, and maybe give you a second chance, and a third, and a fourth. So on, so forth. I'll give you as many chances as you want, but everything you did in the past, will still be fresh in my mind. I haven't forgotten, but I'll act like I have. Until we get into a fight or something. I'll bring back everything you've said and done. Make you feel like absolute shit. Do to you, what you've done to me… Hurt me. Now I'm not a violent person. I will never hit someone. Yet, if you hurt me enough emotionally, it'll just come back at you eventually. Now, it probably sounds like I'm a psychopath, and maybe you're right, but everyone acts differently under certain situations. The good news is, I may have a dark side, but I hope I found someone who can fix that….